September 20, 2025!

Unitarian Universalist Fellowship
3313 Wade Ave, Raleigh, NC 27607

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Gather is a CHRIST-CENTERED conference for LGBTQ+ individuals and those who love them, in and adjacent to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.

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Dr. Ben Schilaty

2025 Keynote Speaker

Ben is the author of A Walk In My Shoes: Questions I am Often Asked as a Gay Latter-Day Saint and cohosts the podcast "All Out in the Open.”

Dr. Ben Schilaty is a social work professor at Utah Valley University. He also works part-time as a therapist specializing in working with LGBTQ clients and their families. 

YOUR GATHER SOUTHEAST STARTS IN

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We  encourage you to also attend the
Worldwide Gather Conference in Provo Utah
June 2025

SCHEDULE 2025

FRIDAY POTLUCK PICNIC!

6 - 9 pm, Apex Community Park
all are invited
(more information later)

SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 20TH, 2025

10:30 am - 11:00 am

Registration tables open

11:00 am - 11:15 am: Welcome

In Sanctuary

11:30 am - 12:30 pm

All of these workshop descriptions are subject to change.

Connecting with Pride: LGBTQ Meet and Greet

Meet your community, learn that you are not alone, and build lasting connections through fun and engaging activities. Discover the vibrant and diverse community of LGBTQ Latter-Day Saints, hear stories of faith, resilience, and pride, and build a network of supportive friends and allies who understand your journey. Engage in icebreakers, creative workshops, games, and collaborative projects to foster connection and camaraderie in a relaxed and welcoming environment. Whether you're new to the community or looking to deepen existing connections, you'll leave this session feeling more connected, supported, and inspired.

Leadership Session:
How do we get past policy and focus on love?
with Mitch Gibson

This session will explore the current church teachings and policies and dispells some of the myths regarding the LGBTQ+ community and their membership in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Engage in a thoughtful discussion to understand how these teachings impact the lives of LGBTQ members. This session provides a platform for learning, dialogue, and fostering a more inclusive faith community.

The Science of Sex and Identity
with Dr. Kristine Coons

Dr. Kristine Coons (DO, FACOI), offers a compassionate, science-backed overview of human sex development, gender identity, and the natural diversity found in both. Drawing from embryology, genetics, neuroscience, and historical context, Dr. Coons explores how biology defies binary categories—and how intersex and gender-diverse identities are part of the human spectrum. This session is perfect for those seeking to better understand the science behind sex and identity, dismantle myths with empathy and evidence, and foster more informed, inclusive communities.

12:30 - 1:45 pm
LUNCH on SITE: catered or option to bring your own

1:45 - 3:00 pm

LGBTQ+ Families Navigating Church
with Carrie and Katie Andrews

This session offers a supportive environment to connect, share, and grow together in faith and identity.

The Ministry of Reconciliation: Our Marriage Focused on Covenant Keeping and Building Peace with Those Who Disagree
with Nathan Tenney & Thomas Smith

Nathan and Thomas discuss how honoring covenants can become a source of strength as we navigate our relationships with family, church leaders, and fellow members. Drawing on their experiences, we'll share how we strive to stay rooted in faith while maintaining meaningful relationships with those who may never fully encourage our life together.  This is a conversation about the often quiet and unseen work of reconciliation: the spiritual discipline of loving others without full agreement, staying faithful in the face of disappointment, and creating peace without compromising our integrity.

Every Moment Is Grace: Redemption and Faith Found Within the Darkness
with Lindsay and Connie Sais

“No one is as capable of gratitude as one who has emerged from the kingdom of night.” – Elie Wiesel

 Lindsey Sais has lived that truth. Her story spans drug and alcohol addiction, incarceration, queerness, neurodivergence, and an unexpected faith in a God who never left—even when the Church felt distant, then erased her name. Lindsey shares a testimony forged not in classrooms or chapels, but in motel rooms, jail cells, distant rehabs, recovery circles, and prayers both whispered aloud and silently within. Diagnosed recently with autism, compounding ADHD and anxiety, and once described as having “a wealth of worldly knowledge” by a Relief Society president. Lindsey offers a rare and sacred look at the gospel from the margins most people never see, much less live through.  

This session is for anyone who’s ever felt unseen, for those learning how to see, those who don’t belong, and for all who believe, or simply want to believe, that the Atonement reaches farther than we were taught. Come hear a story you won’t forget—because it was never meant to be kept.

30 minute break

3:30 - 5:00 pm

LGBTQ+ Panel Discussion

Moderated by Mitch Gibson
In this sessions attendees will have the opportunity to submit questions before teh conference and listen to answers from a panel of our beloved LGTBQ+ community.
Discover how being a "safe" ally for your LGBTQ+ friends and family can make all the difference. Learn practical ways to better love and support your loved ones. This sessions offers better tools to foster acceptance, understanding, and unwavering support.

5:00 - 7:00 pm dinner break

We encourage you to go out with other conference attendees so you can get to know your community.

7:00 pm Fireside with Dr. Ben Schilaty

What Happens at Gather Southeast?

Events open only to the LGBTQ+ community include a Meet & Greet, Story Sharing.

Presentations, discussion groups, and lectures will educate and support family members, allies, and leaders as we learn to better love ALL of God's children.

We will have a friday night potluck or casual gathering. The conference will run all day Saturday and end with a keynote speaker from 7-9pm.

You may bring your own food or choose a lunch box from Panera (with GF options) when you register. There will be plenty of time to eat dinner at a local restaurant (we will give you a long list of recommendations!) We will also have snacks available during the day.

People attended last year from as far away as Florida and Chicago. We might have locals available to host travelers from out of town. We are looking into reserving a hotel block to see if we can get a discount. Raleigh is a GREAT place to visit in the fall!